The Mother of Invention goes over how people treat each other based on their choices or understanding of each other. In Anwuli’s case, her friends and family judged her and shunned her for her relationship with a married man. Although what she did on the outside seems morally wrong to her friends and family. None of them even bothered to listen to her side of the story. How she should have been treated is far different than how everyone around her treated her.
The way Anwuli should have been treated by her neighbors, friends, and family should have been with respect and care. They should not have judged her and listened to her side of what happened. She was the one that was deceived and seduced by a married man, yet they took his word for what happened and blamed her. They should have helped her and listened to her, especially her family. They should never have abandoned her for what took place and been there to welcome her baby into the world.
Anwuli’s neighbors, friends, and family did not act in a caring way. Instead, they acted in a way that we see people do all too commonly today. They were judgmental and assumed the worse of her. They would not even let her explain her side of the story. By being judgmental, they sought justice for her ex-fiancé, the married man that did her wrong. So, they chose to shun her and block her on social media as punishment for the crime they assumed they thought she had committed. They did not try to fix or change their actions to improve the relationship so that they could flourish as a family, friend, or neighbor; instead, they just abandoned her.
Anwuli’s fiancé should have treated her with respect despite his deception; he should have taken responsibility for his actions. He should have shown her that he cared about her and his child’s well-being. Despite his moral failure to be faithful to his wife, he should have ensured the safety of Anwuli and his soon-to-be baby and protected her. He should have taken her to the hospital despite his wife’s say on the matter. He failed when he left her alone and gave people a reason to judge her for something she did not do but for what he did to her. If he had given her the respect and care she gave him, they could have both handled the situation better and improved the whole situation. His actions led to her being alone with no one to talk to or help her with his child.
The house Obi 3 showed more caring than anyone around Anwuli even though it did not have emotion. The house recognized the needs that needed to be fulfilled and tended to those needs for her, unlike everyone else around her, who ignored her, and her needs based on their judgment about her. They deemed her better off dead. Obi 3 exhibited caring behavior because it was designed to do just that protect the people inside the house. It did not judge her or her actions. Just like Anwuli’s body or any female body is designed to care for and protect a fetus before birth. It is not emotional; it is just how it was designed, just like how our bodies are designed to sustain life without judgment.
The video Obi 3 plays show that despite the past faults about the oil extraction, the peri grass was created to apologize for what they did to the land. It was also an attempt to make up for the damage they had created while extracting the oil. It shows that they care about the Nigerian people. They took responsibility for their actions from the past so they all could grow together.




